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Today was one of those days where I feel like I got a lot done, but now that I look around the house, I can’t for the life of me remember what.
We started out the day with math, I know; the kitchen table was covered with pretzels and pencils and apple slices and an abacus and tangrams and the tangrams puzzle book (the one that conveniently has no solutions in the back, just a note: send $6 for the complete solutions guide!) and a math book or two. All of which are equally necessary math supplies.
And then, after the math… seriously, I have no idea what we did between then and bedtime. There was some reading aloud. There was some reading silently. There was probably some other stuff that didn’t involve reading.
At one point the kids decided to make the living room into a zoo, complete with enclosures and signs and an elaborate hand-drawn map. There was much deliberation over whether the zoo ought to have pythons and cobras, or whether turtles were enough to fill the whole reptile-and-amphibian display. There was also heated debate over whether camels ought to be included at all. (Owen’s position: yes, camels are cool. Abigail’s: no, camels are weird, the last time we visited them at the zoo, all their humps were deflated and flopped over to one side because they weren’t storing water. The imposed compromise: imagine non-weird camels! Voila, problem solved.)
But that’s what the kids did, not what I did. I read some email, I wrote some email. I gave the toddlery person a bath. I made meals, I made snacks, I put people to bed. And… um… that may be pretty much all. But I FEEL strangely accomplished! And that’s what counts, right?
Hmm.
Well.
Possibly not.
I suppose there’s always tomorrow…









Heh…oh, Mama, we SO have days like this, except for the homeschooling part. (Well, we’re doing Joy School, but I only have to teach two days out of every four weeks, with a glass of four 3 year old girls. Does it count?)
My husband can have his pick – there can be days when I FEEL accomplished, and the house is relatively clean…but the kids will be cranky, because i’ve been ignoring them.
If he comes home and the house is a MESS, he’ll know the kids had a great day, and he should keep his mouth shut.
Thanks for stopping by Bubba Bubbles!!
I have days where I get up and don’t sit down all day and then wondered what I did. I know I did a lot, but I just can’t remember what I did.
I’d give anything just to FEEL like I’d accomplished anything at the end of the day!
Hubby asks what I’ve done all day and the only thing I can come up with is “meaningless tasks.”
I once read a newspaper letter about all of the work that stay-at-home parents accomplish on any given day. It included tasks from maintaining strategic awareness of rhythms to help kids avoid meltdowns, considering how basic interactions affect long-term human beings, nourishing children’s bodies, minds and spirits, etc. The list was incredibly extensive. And it helped me to articulate how complex parenting is and why at the end of a day it is possible that no other tasks are completed, but the day was filled to the brim.
Lovely post and lovely work.
Thanks for the comment. I think the feeling of accomplishment is really the most important part. I love running across people who home school! I don’t but I think about it a lot lately and have the greatest respect for people who do.
I think maybe I felt accomplished when really I was just BUSY all day, but I guess I’ll take what I can get.