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I sewed a button on a pair of pants today. This might not sound impressive. And in fact it’s not a new skill, which probably makes it sound even less impressive. But the thing is, I never fix anything. Sadie’s just outgrown a dress that’s been missing a button since Audrey was a baby, and I will very probably pack the dress away without ever replacing the button.
I have needles. I have thread. I often have buttons. I have time; it takes, what, two minutes to sew on a button? But what I usually do is this: I put the clothing that needs a button (or a patch or a seam or, really, anything) in a special “I’ll fix it later” pile.
Occasionally the pile goes home with my mother and she might fix some of the stuff, but usually it just stays put until whoever owns the item in question outgrows it and I can guiltily pack it away.
Right now my pile consists mainly of a down throw blanket that needs mending. I don’t think we’re about to outgrow it.
But this morning, Abigail lost a button off a pair of pants. I was tempted—so tempted!—to tell her I’d deal with them later, but the button was one of those inside ones (the ones that secure the elastic that comes in every pair of kid pants these days, to adjust the fit of the waistband), and I was afraid the elastic would get lost forever in the casing, so… I just did it. I found a needle. I found matching-ish thread. And now her pants are hanging in her closet once more.
I wonder what else I could “just do” as it came up? Would I would get more done that way, instead of leaving things for later, that elusive later that never quite becomes now? Or would I just be overrun by the things that need doing at every moment of every day?
I suspect my existing system (mostly) works best, but seriously? It feels good to have fixed the button.








I’ve actually been thinking about this lately in regards to so many things in my life. If I just did it NOW, would I get more done and feel less guilty about things that end up sitting? I don’t know honestly because as soon as one thing is done, 3 or 4 other things have come up and realistically, I just cannot keep up with it all. So yeah, I have piles too (to file, to mend, to give away, to . . .).
I know what you mean! I sewed my son’s little league patch on his sleeve yesterday (it was supposed to be an iron on patch but it was peeling off after three weeks) and then MAGICALLY I sewed the eye button back on his sock monkey slippers.
I don’t know what came over me, but you’re right – it felt good.
I could get a lot done around here if i actually just did things when I thought of them. Maybe you’re starting a trend here, we could all pick up on it!
I think about this too! So many little easy tasks could just be finished and set aside, but if I did it all the time, it would become the norm, and then I wouldn’t have that enormous sense of satisfaction when I ACTUALLY finish something. And see, I just inadvertantly justified why I’m typing here instead of finished the six things I have going on this very desk.
Hey, at least you HAVE the needle and threat where you can find them! I’m impressed!
I haven’t put them away yet…
Maybe something else will lose a button in the next day or two.
You sound just like me! My “fix it” pile could eat someone despite the fact I sew almost daily, that sort of thing NEVER gets done…oye!
I’ve been thinking about this, too. For me, it IS easier and faster just to do those ltitle things right away, but I can’t manage it very often. I’m sure I would feel less overwhlemed if I could. Alas.
I actually bought needles and thread when I became a foster parent…yes I am very idealistic. You are not alone, obviously from the comments. My fix it piles end up in shopping bags from cool stores, migrate to a safe dark place in the back of the closet and eventually come out years later when everything is out of style. The same goes with my dry-cleaning pile; only eventually clothes that need dry cleaned start to rot…minor difference.
I almost got motivated to write a blog entry a few months ago about when I sewed up a hole in a favorite pair of lounging pants–it was that monumental! I felt like a domestic goddess that day:)
Since my mom lives so far away I’ll try to get your mom to sub-in once she has her cool new sewing room!! yahoo…hey I might even join her on her machine and hem a curtain or two…
i’ll be a super-goddess then.
it’s a good feeling, agreed.
you know who… (MH)